"In BECOMING REAL Dr. Gail Saltz challenges each of us to explore the stories we tell ourselves to explain who we are, account for our behavior, and deal with pain and fear. While necessary for our psychological survival, if left unexamined, these stories can limit seriously our capacity for living and loving. Not only is this remarkable work in line with the contemporary views of the narrative structure of consciousness, but it speaks in plain language to everyone engaged in the ongoing struggle to live more fully and more authentically."

Jack D. Barchas, M.D.,
Chairman, The Department of Psychiatry, The New York Presbyterian Hospital,
Weill-Cornell Medical Center

"Gail Saltz has written a wonderful book that is important, interesting and fun to read. She captures the essence of how to make our past improve our lives today. A must read for everyone who wants the most out of life."

Harold S. Koplewicz, M.D.,
Author of More Than Moody: Recognizing and Treating Adolescent Depression

"Gail Saltz, a psychoanalyst by training, brings to life her deep understanding of the human condition. Using real words and poignant stories Dr. Saltz helps us understand the inner world of our minds and how unconscious stories influence who we are - our vision, our struggles and our joys. A profound and valuable book written about real people and using a real voice."

Newell Fischer, M.D.,
President, The American Psychoanalytic Association young ones.